I thought 2010 was bad truthfully 2011 was a disaster. Between dealing with a sick parent and a Jerry Springer-esque messy breakup I am all to ready to begin the new year. My ex and I parted ways after my birthday before Thanksgiving.... what a way to start the holiday season & I always thought I couldn't live without him, but I'm managing. We made a decade in May so imagine wasting all of your roaring 20's on a jerk.
I'm going into this new year determined to rebuild myself. After spending a decade completely intertwined with someone else I've forgotten who I am. All my goals, wants and desires were for our future. So this New Year's resolution is all about getting to know me:
What is it that I want?
Where do I see myself in 5 years? In 10?
What can I do differently in the next relationship?
Do I even want to date again?
Do I really want to stay in NYC?
Will I go back to school?
What am I going to do to get healthy?
Over the next month I will have many more questions with very few answers, but what a fun soul searching journey this will be.
I wish everyone a happy, healthy, prosperous new year and I want to leave you with a quote from my favorite childhood book Wacky Wednesday by Theo Lessig, which helps remind me even when things get crazy just take it easy & sort yourself out for tomorrow is a new day.
when I counted them all.
And I even got rid
of that shoe on the wall.

